Dating a gay couple
Do gays date?
As a rule, gays do not date. We hook up and then need to look for the next best, younger, richer, more handsome man. The gays that date are usually deplorable physically or emotionally (possibly both) and over 30. No self-respecting gay wants anyone over 30 unless they are rich and have a hot body. Cory from West Texas on July 03, 2014:
What is it like to be in a gay male relationship?
In every gay male relationship, there is overt power, and there is covert or “passive-aggressive” power. How these dynamics are expressed, and the conflicts that can result, are often the impetus for entering couples therapy. The gay men that I work with are often from mixed cultures or different nationalities.
How long is a long term relationship for a gay man?
In gay years the phrase “long term” can often differ from straight folks. A long term relationship for a gay man can be subjective at best. As a rule of thumb, 2 years or more is a good yardstick go by, give or take. What is important is this: the amount of time he has been out of his same sex relationship.
Should a gay man act straight on a first date?
There are many gay men who are masculine and their sexual orientation is not readily obvious. With that shared, if your first date makes it a point to say he “acts straight” and goes out of his way to identify as straight to others around him, you really need to carefully consider if this person is for you.